Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Endless Journey

Expecting the world to treat you fairly
because you are a good person
is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you
because you are a vegetarian.

-Dennis Wholey

Dear blog readers, this blog entry has been the most difficult one for me to compose.

The legal battle has been a long and lonely journey. I've been warned many times that this is an impossible fight, and that the tale of David and Goliath doesn't exist in the real world. This seems to be proven correct - today the Supreme Court of Singapore found in HSBC Private Bank's favor.

It's disheartening as I had nothing but the truth. However I do not regret fighting for my rights and believing in justice, and I intend to keep on fighting by taking the case to the next step.

Your support has been the source of my strength, I'd be grateful if you could continue to offer your help and support.

P.S. It's a difficult time for me... so please kindly understand if you don't see as many smiles on my face as you used to see...


Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey pj a big hug to u. hope to meet u soon! rich

2:28 AM  
Anonymous John said...

PJ that is just SO wrong. You are in a situation that is so injust and unfair. Stand strong brother, we are on your side.

2:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

PJ fuk it,its only money tbf,you still have your family which is the most important, I know its hard but try and focus on those around you who care about you regardless of money as hsbc cant take that. Stay strong.

2:56 AM  
Anonymous Breaker (Steve) said...

PJ, by all means keep fighting my friend, but know the signs when it's time to walk away!
Take stock of what really makes you happy! ;-)

3:20 AM  
Anonymous Helen said...

PJ, how can it be? The bankers didn't even get to be cross examined. This is just unfair.

3:26 AM  
Anonymous Liz and Sue said...

Dearest PJ,

We know how tough it is for you now. Sorry we don’t have much to offer but you have our care, love, support & faith!!
At times you need to go through hardships before you get what you wish for.. We have you in our thoughts and prayers..
Don’t lose that smile mister cool! ;> *muacks*

Hold on for your loved ones..
Hold on for yourself..
Give the most that you can,
Love the best you can,
And never lose hope!
Each morning you wake,
You’re thankful you’re still alive
To live another day to find your way! :)

6:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

上手くまとめられないんだけど - あまりの不条理さに言葉もでません。でも、PJ頑張って。遠くにいても同じ時間生きてるよ。Continue supporting you endlessly! :-) Never give up and please don't let your hope slipped away. We are all here with you.

hug hug for you ;)

6:59 AM  
Blogger Marshmallow said...

Oh PJ, you have no idea how angry I am at hearing this! I'm devastated and upset on your behalf for what you've been through. Big hugs to you my friend, we are all here with you.

8:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


*Hugz* We will support you!


8:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear PJ



LOVE xxx


8:34 PM  
Anonymous Jason said...

No words can express how I feel. I have lost many hopes, dreams and kindness. But as long as I can see you smiling I will fight together with you. No regrets.
So Please don't ever give up on yourself.
Life is a long journey and you have many people who love you and staying by your side.

Jason :)

11:41 PM  
Anonymous Fredrik said...

Dear PJ, dear friend, I am so sorry to hear such a devastating outcome. I know thoughts and mental support doesn't help much against injust bureaucracy, although I hope it brings you a small degree of coping strength in such difficult times.

I truthfully miss your company and wish I could be there once more to lend support and friendship.

And some other news that might draw away from hardships; me and Erika are having another child in a couple of months.

5:35 AM  
Blogger Chantal said...

A big hug flying over from Holland.
Take care, keep fighting, keep believing in yourself and the ones you love. Don't give up!

2:29 AM  
Anonymous Jason said...

I hope everyone learned something from what PJ went through and warn others especially someone close to you. Not to trust what the bank promise you and justice is only for the rich.

4:26 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

thanks Rich, see you soon.

12:57 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Hi John, thanks for your support. Maybe I am too tiny to fight to justice after all...

12:58 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Hi Stuart, thanks for the reminder.. you are right that there are things people can't take away. but for me this case is more about the principles of human being.. such as honesty and justice...

12:59 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Thanks Steve.

1:00 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Helen, guess unfairness might just be an element of our society...

1:01 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Litsuko and Sueko, thank you for your support... without the loved ones and dear friends I couldn't have made it this far.. thanks for the wise and encouraging words..

1:02 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Thanks Michiko, hopeなんかはもう捨ててしまった。

1:04 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Marshy, thanks for sharing the emotions with me... thanks for your support.

1:05 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Jen, thanks and hugs for you too..

1:06 AM  
Blogger PJ said...


1:07 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Thanks Jason, not sure if I can recover from the traumatic experience but will try...

1:08 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

thanks for your support Freddy, maybe I was too naive to believe that everyone should be treated equally in the world.. congratulations for you and Erika, hope to see you again.

1:10 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Hi Chantal, thanks for your support.. sorry I didn't get to see you in Auckland, hope you come back again.

1:10 AM  
Blogger PJ said...

Jason, thanks for the reminder... things like this can indeed happen to anyone so better be careful..

1:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Stay strong PJ!!

X Hannah

8:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

PJ, I'm so sorry to hear that they didn't rule in your favour :0( that really sucks.

I agree with Stuart and Steve though, remember what you do have, what they can't take away from you and that you are a bigger and better person than they are :0)

I understand your reasons for continuing with the battle for justice and I applaud you and I'm sure you know everyone will support you, just don't let it consume you my friend.

Take care, love always,


3:51 AM  

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